My life is full of drama Help pls?

I am dating this guy which really love and he loves me back (and we are planning on getting married when we are older :D we're only 16 :P Anyway there Is this other guy who said he loves me and I consider him as a brother ! He gets jealous for the craziest things once I posted a heart on my bf wall and he didn't talk to me for days ! He told me not to kiss my bf and I don't wanna hurt him so I spend like 2 months without kissing my bf for him ! But that's not the bigger problem Once He said bad stuff about me to this other girl : Sl*t wh*ore .. ! because I never loved him ! I mean come on ! I saw what he said and I told him he said forgive and I did I gave him another chance but He did it again He said bad stuff about me ! & I forgave him another time ! Did I do the right thing or is he gone too far in this one ? HelP